Dear Parents, Merry Christmas.

In today's fast-paced world, children's stamina and well-being play crucial roles in their overall development and academic success. Understanding the interconnectedness of physical health, cognitive function, nutrition, and emotional well-being is essential for creating an optimal learning environment.

As parents, we walk fine lines. We want our children to find their feet and make us proud. Of course, developing human organisms will get it wrong. Mistakes form the basis of learning. I have yet to meet someone who has learned from not making mistakes.

I cannot stress enough how important it is to talk with your children. Notice the words ‘talk with,’ which contrast with ‘talk to.’

Talking with your children means having a conversation, whereas talking to them implies a one-sided discussion in which one party talks and the other listens.

Nurturing growing minds is among the most rewarding things we can do as parents. A bunch of other adjectives apply here as well. Frustrating is top of the list. I want to back that up with two verbs–sustain and support.

Reliability is not just a trait, it's a powerful tool that brings certainty, generates trust, and builds solid relationships. As children grow older, they rely on their relationship with you. They need to know you’re there for them, and your reliability is what makes you an integral part of their lives.

I began my teaching career when challenging students were handled using a process called ‘behaviour modification.’

There were many supporting theories about why behaviour modification worked. However, as my career progressed, I uncovered many more theories about why it didn’t work. One key factor was the lack of effective communication.

Parenting is a beautiful journey, but it’s not without its challenges. Children, like many adults, exhibit a wide range of behaviours. From stubbornness to destructiveness, these behaviours are more common than you think.

We parents have rubbed shoulders with the ‘O’ word–an obstinate person. Each one of us displays it. Each time we stare at something unpleasant, it appears. Adults are great at making excuses:

‘I’m too busy …’

‘I don’t have time …’

‘That’s not in my job description …’

Our imaginations are wonderful. A child’s imagination conjures stories and characters from playthings, while an adult’s imagination predicts. It is our sixth sense. It’s our ‘what if’ function.

A child’s imagination is powerful. We adults can manipulate that power. Like all power, it can be used for good or not so good. Do we wonder why imagination takes a beating as we grow older?

Spoiler alert: it doesn’t.

Maintaining a child’s focus is difficult, especially if distracted by something else. Screens, anyone?

If your child has a full working range of senses, feel blessed. Navigating a complicated life without one or more is challenging. Let’s focus on our ears. They get us out of trouble if our backs are turned and we can’t see a threat.

Let’s revisit a key point from our previous discussion-the significance of a structured morning routine. It's crucial to have one, even if it may seem like chaos at times. The key is to ensure that everyone is ready and off to their destinations. Remember, chaos can be its own reward, but only if you navigate through it.

We’ve all done the school day routine. You know the drill: wake up, have coffee, wake others, have breakfast, prepare lunches, collect homework, get dressed, and head to work and school. As a teacher, I observed many examples of well-executed morning routines. I also saw cases of not-so-well-run morning starts.

In this era of abundant information, deep thinking skills are not just a luxury, but a necessity. Many of us find ourselves constantly engaged with our phones, browsing through social media, news sites, magazine articles, podcasts, and text messages. How often do we pause to reflect on the information we are absorbing and sharing?

Developing deep thinking skills is essential in today's fast-paced world, where information is abundant and decisions are often complex. You can assist your child in creating the headspace for deep thinking.

Once again, I want to personally express my heartfelt gratitude for your unwavering support of your child’s education. Your children may not articulate it now, but in the future, they will acknowledge the immense value of your support.

It is the lot of the teacher/parent that the seeds we sow often don’t bear fruit for many years. Be assured that the seeds will bear fruit.

As most Australian states embark on Term 2, I want to take a moment to express my gratitude for your support and involvement in your children's Education. I hope you had a wonderful time with your children over the holiday break, a time to cherish the moments away from the rush of mornings as everyone leaves for work and school.

Once we understand something, we must express ourselves to reinforce that understanding. Cooks express themselves by producing tasty food, and musicians use their instruments to create music.

How do we gain understanding? On a superficial level, we use our senses. Our senses, which we often take for granted, play a crucial role. We know not to touch the stove hotplate and that looking both ways before crossing a busy street is a good idea, thanks to our senses.

Where did this understanding come from? We picked it up from others. Recall the time your child was learning to walk. Did you assist? Of course, you did. You held their hand, helped them get their balance, and moved stuff out of their way. Your role was crucial in their learning journey.