Reliability

Reliability is not just a trait, it's a powerful tool that brings certainty, generates trust, and builds solid relationships. As children grow older, they rely on their relationship with you. They need to know you’re there for them, and your reliability is what makes you an integral part of their lives.

Having your child’s back is a crucial part of raising them. By consistently demonstrating reliability, you can strengthen your bond and provide a stable foundation for their development.

Here are five ways. (Side note: these aren’t new)

  1. Set clear expectations by establishing routine and structure. Communicate responsibilities openly and honestly.

  2. Maintaining consistency in communication is critical to being a reliable parent. Keeping lines of communication open allows your children to feel comfortable bringing issues and concerns to you. Listening to their thoughts and feelings and providing constructive feedback strengthens bonds.

  3. Prioritising quality time creates opportunities for meaningful interactions. Create some memorable moments together.

  4. Honouring commitments is not just a task; it's a responsibility that teaches children the essential life skills of responsibility and accountability. These are skills they will carry into adulthood, and you, dear parent, play a crucial role in shaping them.

  5. Cultivate trust through your actions. Words are mere words without decisive actions behind them.

Three takeaways: follow through, have their backs, and be consistent.

Mike Cooper

Writer, educator. connect discover think learn

http://www.mikecooper.au
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