Jump Start

We’ve all done the school day routine. You know the drill: wake up, have coffee (or tea), wake others, eat breakfast, prepare lunches, collect homework, get dressed, and head to work and school. As a teacher, I observed many examples of well-executed morning routines. I also saw cases of not-so-well-run morning starts.

Jumpstarting a day, particularly with reluctant starters, takes time. A morning routine for your child is a practical way to start the day. It is also a crucial element in setting the tone for overall well-being and success.

Trying to unpack the process in a 200-word blog post is impossible, but here are a few tips:

• Consistency

Follow the same routine every day. This sets boundaries and creates a feeling of calmness and predictability.

• Age-appropriateness

Having a preschooler iron their shirt is probably not an example here.

• Map

Create a step-by-step schedule. Visual aids such as charts or checklists are effective. Avoid using star charts or rewards based on achievement. The morning routine is a process. It doesn’t need rewards after every small step.

• Flexibility

Your aim is consistency, but don’t be afraid to adapt when needed. Be open to changes but always strive to maintain a core structure that provides stability and support.

• Empowerment

Encourage ownership of the morning—foster independence by letting your children make choices and solve problems independently. This is the gold standard, getting kids to own their morning.